Infertility Stress Test © 2004 Domar Center

Check the response which reflects how you usually feel (i.e., not just how you might feel on day 28 of your cycle)

 
Regarding my level of optimism about my chances of getting pregnant soon:
I am very optimistic that I will get pregnant soon
I am cautiously optimistic
I have moments when I feel optimistic but they are getting less frequent
I feel very discouraged and sometimes think I am just going through the motions
 
When a friend or family member tells me that they are pregnant, I:
genuinely feel happy for them
am happy for them, but feel resentful it wasn't me
feel sad and angry
am devastated
 
My sex life:
is the same or better than before infertility
 is ok, but it clearly has been affected by the infertility
 is clearly suffering and I wonder if it will ever be good again
 is nonexistent - I or we just don't feel like making love anymore
 
I find that I feel sad:
about as often as before
more often that I would like but it feels manageable
it is intense when I get bad news and/or when I get my period
most of or all the time
 
My relationships with my friends:
is as good as it has always been
is ok as long as they don't talk about their children or pregnancies
is ok as long as I avoid certain insensitive people
I try to avoid almost all of them
 
My current level of awareness of my menstrual cycle:
is the same; I have a vague idea where I am in my cycle
I know where I am in my cycle when I am receiving treatment
I am consistently careful to know the exact days of the important phases
I know exactly what day it is every day
 
My family:
has been supportive and carefully involved
does not know anything about my infertility
some members of my family know, but they are not supportive
I told them, but they either refuse to ask about it or continue to make hurtful comments
 
My anxiety level:
is the same as before infertility
spikes during certain times of my cycle
is elevated throughout my cycle, but I feel at least somewhat ok
is sky-high much of the time
 
My internet time spent on infertility:
is nonexistent
I research things on the web, but do so carefully
I regularly lurk in at least one chat room
I research everything I can and check in with at least one chat room regularly
 
My infertility:
is an unpleasant, but controlled part of my life
takes a lot more of my mental energy than I would like
is permeating most aspects of my life
has totally taken over how I feel almost if not all the time
 
I am
Male
Female
   
 
I am    years old.
 
  Name:   
 
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The following questions are OPTIONAL. The responses we receive will be complied anonymously and analyzed as a group. We are hoping to improve the way in which fertility treatment is delivered by gaining insight into the changes in patients' stress levels during different phases of treatment. To skip these questions, simply scroll to the bottom of the page and click "submit," and you will receive the score to your stress test.
 
Have you initiated fertility treatment?    Yes  No
 
  If "no," how long have you been trying to get pregnant on your own?
   6 to 12 months
 1 to 2 years
 2 years or more  (skip to question 16)
 
  If "yes" which of the following types of Medical Professionals have you discussed your case with (check all that apply)?
   OBGYN
 Primary Health Care Physician
 Reproductive Endocrinologist
 Psychologist / Psychiatrist / Social Worker specializing in infertility
 
How long did you try to get pregnant on your own prior to initiating treatment?
   6 to 12 months
 1 to 2 years
 2 years or more
 
Where are you in your treatment? Check all that apply:
   Undergoing or completed diagnostic work-up
 Undergoing or completed treatment cycles of IUI with Clomid
 Undergoing or completed treatment cycles of IUI with FSH
 Undergoing or completed treatment cycles of IVF
 Undergoing or completed treatment cycles IVF with Donor Sperm
 Undergoing or completed treatment cycles IVF with Donor Egg
 Undergoing or completed treatment cycles with Gestational Carrier
 Other
 
What is the one thing that you feel is contributing to your level of stress the most?
 
 
Are you a Boston IVF patient?    Yes  No
 
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